Has any husband out there changed?

So if he would not ve seen her naked on some site he wud ve still continued ?? Daylight dawned on him after he saw her naked ?? So if he wudnt ve they wud ve very well been together isnt ? Im just trying to get some perspective here. Is he really sorry that he has cheated because he knows he is wrong and hurting you? Or he is sorry that he saw her naked and he is hurt by what she did to him that made him end the relationship. Look u can always forgive a man who is really sorry for what he has done but not the one who has done it purposefully. I do not believe in the concept :once a cheater always a cheater" There can be many reasons behind cheating like unhappiness, emotional or mental needs but if he has done it just for the heck of it then he really deserves to b punished! I feel that u ve given him a perfect family atmosphere but he still went ahead and did what he did and moreover left his autistic son! Thats more than terrible. And i feel he is more sorry that he had to c her naked than actually cheating on u! U r the better judge here. If u feel he is genuinely sorry then ya u forgive him and start a new life but if ur conscious says otherwise be strong enuf to let him go. Remember trust is more important than monogamy.